Where to write

I find my self confronted with one major question when it comes to blogging and that is where to write? Having a personal blog I feel is right and there are certain things that definitely belong on there, it’s working out what should be brought to my second blogging home here at reluctant souls? The last time I bogged here it was a matter of wanting to hide, and knowing that those that the particular people that occasionally read my personal blog don’t know I write here and so there was an element of safety in the particular rant of the time. I suppose part of this question would also have to be the etiquette of posting a link here to my own blog to try and get a few more punters, not as a regular thing, I’m not suggesting that I myself or anyone else should use this as a opportunity to double up our blogs but if we feel we have got a big issue to discuss but feel it should be on the personal blog, should we then use reluctant souls t point people towards it, or even copy it? I don’t know just thinking (what’s the blogging equivalent of out load?) that’s it for now how do others work out these things or think about these issues.